After reading the story and early reactions regarding Jesse Jackson’s fathering of an illegitimate child, I once again am disturbed by a common attitude in our society: a willingness to quickly move beyond all transgressions.
Although I agree that people make mistakes, and I cannot imagine how difficult life must be when the ever-present news media seem poised to jump on any error in judgment, what Mr. Jackson has done is not acceptable.
The over-eagerness of so many individuals to immediately forgive, some to the point of indicating they believe this will make him a stronger political and spiritual leader, sends the message that no matter what one does wrong, it’s OK because you will not ultimately be held accountable for your actions.
It is admirable that Mr. Jackson has the ability and willingness to step up and provide “emotional and financial support” for the child and her mother. And for his suffering family, the choices are few but to forgive and move forward.
But in my opinion, just as I will never again view Bill Clinton as a man of honor, Jesse Jackson should not be held in the same high esteem he was prior to this revelation.
Mr. Jackson did not steal a bicycle or cheat on his taxes; he betrayed the family that loves and trusts him, and has likely caused irreparable emotional damage to every one of them. In addition, he has committed an act that goes against the very grain of the moral foundation on which he has built his public life. Forgive Mr. Jackson, yes; forget what he has done and the far-reaching public and private implications, not likely.
