Anna Pulley

I went on a date with a couple recently. I’ve been a unicorn before, so I’m not completely new to the experience, but I wasn’t sure whether it was something...

I’m scared I’ll regret leaving. I’m also scared I’ll regret staying just because I was too afraid to leave.

How do you tell the difference between a slump that you shouldn’t overreact to and a genuine signal that it’s time to step away for a while?

Dear Anna, I’ve (19M) been with my girlfriend (18F) for just under four months, and things have gotten serious enough that we’re starting to talk about having sex for the...

Dear Anna, I’ve been happily married for 12 years, and my husband and I have been poly for eight of them. Overall, it’s been a really positive part of our...

Dear Anna, I’m 28 and have been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half. Things are really good between us overall, but we keep hitting a wall...

Dear Anna, I’ve been messaging someone I met on a dating app for about three weeks, and we finally have our first date this weekend. We’ve had some really fun...

Dear Anna, I’m a bi/pan woman who’s been married to my husband for 11 years. I’ve always known I wasn’t straight but never explored it much. I had one relationship...

Recently, two different friends — separately, not together — have told me that if I ever wanted to make out with them, they’d be happy to volunteer. Both identify as...

Dear Anna, We went from friends to lovers, writing smutty fan fic together and talking every day.