Anna Pulley

When I try to bring it up — gently, I think — she gets defensive and says I’m pressuring her, which isn’t my intention at all.

Dear Anna, How do I get through to him that this isn’t about jealousy, it’s about basic consideration? — Invisible Girlfriend

Dear Anna, I’m 26 and going through my first real breakup. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years — he’s my first serious relationship, first love,...

Dear Anna, Do I acknowledge it? Plan something? Ignore it entirely and pretend Feb. 14 is just a regular Saturday?

Dear Anna, I’ve been seeing someone for about two months. From day one, I told him I’m not on birth control and that condoms are nonnegotiable. Yet every time things...

Dear Anna, I’m 35 and my girlfriend is 30. She works at a tech startup and has gotten really close with one of her coworkers — a 28-year-old guy who...

Dear Anna, We’ve been back together for about five months now, and he’s everything I remembered, except for one massive problem: his ex-wife.

Dear Anna, My girlfriend and I have been together for four years, and we’re constantly fighting about alone time. We both work full time but on different schedules.

Dear Anna, My boyfriend of two years is extremely into optimization and data tracking — he logs every workout, tracks his macros, uses a smartwatch to monitor his sleep, and...

Dear Anna, I just got back from spending Christmas with my boyfriend’s family for the first time, and I’m still reeling from how badly it went.